I've learned that you cannot make someone love you.
All you can do is to be someone who can be loved.
The rest is up to them.
I've learned that we don't have to change friends if we understand that friends change.
I've learned that no matter how good a friend is, they're going to hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that.
I've learned that true friendship continues to grow, even over the longest distance. The same goes for true love.
I've learned that it's taking me a long time to become the person I want to be.